I wrote these words to encourage myself in a moment of paralyzing fear. Not that my life was in danger, but my dreams were.

I had stepped out, spent money to purchase high end travel merchandise to resale for low prices in conjunction with my travel company, and I was scared everyday. So afraid that I allowed the merchandise to sit around my room for two weeks, instead of posting it to my online store for immediate turn over.

I had a problem, and it was time to come to terms with it. I was a scaredy cat who was afraid of failure more than anything else.

In the past I had written countless poems, essays, short stories and all manners of materials for books, but when it was time to print them and move into the final steps that would make a book a reality; I would hide my work away, buried deep inside journals and begin another project. I told myself that because writing was so dear to me, then the fear was understandable and acceptable; and that I would wait for a more perfect time…but Solomon says that she “who observes the wind [and waits for all conditions to be favorable] will not sow,” and she “who regards the clouds will not reap.”

In a lot of ways, there is no perfect timing, only faith and action. We just have to move forward in faith no matter what, because the saying is true, No Guts, No Glory. . . if we won’t get up and live our own lives, then who will?

(c) Jamillah Warner, www.gospelnerve.com, I got the nerve . . .

Check out the entire She Can, She Do Series

THE INTRO Articles:

Intro 1: I Used to Be Afraid

Intro 2: Give Fear No Right

Intro 3: Turning Thirty with an Attitude

Intro 4: To Will & To Do

Intro 5: Dear Lady

Intro 6: Press On*

Intro 7: Dig In. Hold On. Ride It Out As If You Expect It To Pass

Intro 8: I’m Stuck In A Storm And I Can’t Get Out

SHE Can, SHE Do—The Core Articles:

#1: I Hated That . . .

#2: Happy Birthday

#3: Choose the Life . . .

#4: Much Business & Painful Effort

#5: My Business, My Character

#6: Open Doors

#7: So Hungry

#8: The Money Question!

#9: What Am I Supposed To Do?

#10: The Landscape May Change, but I’m Still Strong!

#11: Forever Connected . . .

#12: Move! Get Out the Way!

#13: Anger Ain’t No Lifetime Companion

#14: I’m Angry & I Can’t See Straight

#15: Small Beginnings

#16: More Than You Know

#17: Planning the Dream

#18: You Need An Army

#19: We Need Help

#20: Nobody Does It Better

#21:  What Dreams May Come . . .

#22: Be Diligent!

#23: Dives & Belly Flops

#24: Learning to Seize the Day

#25: Roadblocks for a Reason

#26: Tears On The Page

#27: Find a Healthy Church. Become a Healthy Woman

She Can She Do Intro 2: Give Fear No Right

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

Just like I used to do with my writing, (unfortunately & true to form) I did the same thing with the merchandise for the travel agency. I let it sit around.And I wasn’t around moping either; I just kept ‘busy’ doing ‘other’ things. And [...] Continue Reading…

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She Can, She Do Intro 3: Turning Thirty with an Attitude

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

My sister turned thirty with a twisted ankle and a swollen knee. I turned thirty and gained an extra twenty pounds promptly. My aunt turned thirty and she was in the best shape of her life. What in the world is thirty anyway? What [...] Continue Reading…

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She Can, She Do Intro 4: To Will & To Do

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

We are wired for success, God made us that way.She Can, She Do is about learning to respond to the spirit in us that craves the best.And I don’t mean the best cars, the best houses and the best vacations (though we want that [...] Continue Reading…

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She Can, She Do Intro 5: Dear Lady

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

To the woman who is under whelmed by the lack of excitement in her lifeTo the woman who is over-whelmed by the responsibilities and the disappointments of her lifeTo the woman who fears so many things . . .To the woman who is afraid [...] Continue Reading…

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She Can, She Do Intro 6: Press On*

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

We don’t have to be perfect to be blessed, but we have to be warriors, and we have to be in motion. I haven’t figured it all out yet and Lord knows that I haven’t reached my goal, but there is one thing that [...] Continue Reading…

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She Can, She Do Intro 7: Dig in, Hold on, & Ride it Out As If You Expect It To Pass

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

I just hate that . . .I hate it, when everything is not perfect the way it is supposed to be. I hate it when people can’t or won’t see my point of view too. I hate it when I have the answer and [...] Continue Reading…

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She Can, She Do Intro 8: I’m stuck in a storm and I can’t get out

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

Storms are supposed to pass.They are not supposed to hover over us for a life time.If it continues to rain in one spot, eventually there will be a flood. Maybe we should move onto higher ground.check out the Gospel Nerve Story Cafe for the [...] Continue Reading…

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Sitting in Pictures

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

I stepped out the car and stood on the sidewalk for a few seconds and looked up at the tall building whose glassed exterior reflected me gazing up. “Wow!” I thought and then I walked into the building excited about seeing my college friend, [...] Continue Reading…

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In The Wake of What Appears to Be Broken Destinies . . . HOPE

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

In the wake of what appears to be broken destinies and unmet dreams, darkness slips in and attempts to hijack the space that belongs to the overcomer that lives in the deepest parts of our souls. Fight for what is ours. Hope is [...] Continue Reading…

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Reclaiming Your Christmas, dealing with death during the holidays

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

First of all you are not alone. Many of us have lost loved ones during the holiday season. And sometimes it just doesn’t matter when you lost them, you miss them at Christmas. It’s ok to feel your loss as long [...] Continue Reading…

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Help is on the way . . .

FAITH (heart condition)

With everything that is happening in the world, 1. it is a perfect time to think of others, and 2. a reason to do things to make the air around you special, People need company from a sincere and empathetic friend, [...] Continue Reading…

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What about February?

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

Happy February, a month that is toted as the month of black history and love. Since 1926 this has been black history month, thanks to Dr. Carter G. Woodson. The purpose is to ensure the consistent acknowledgement of the contribution of Black [...] Continue Reading…

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Dr. Carter G Woodson

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

Someone has to tell the story, in order for the experience to live beyond the moment. In order for truth to take her proper place, then someone must be the guardian of the details. Dr. Carter G. Woodson (1875 -1950) was a [...] Continue Reading…

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Madame C.J. Walker: Changing the World with Hair Care Products

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

“I am a woman who came from the cotton fields of the South. From there I was promoted to the washtub. From there I was promoted to the cook kitchen. And from there I promoted myself into the business of manufacturing hair goods and [...] Continue Reading…

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Contemporaries, Today and Yesterday

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

I found out that Mary J. Blige and I share the same birthdate, that Marion Jones, the sprinter was sentenced to six months in prison (on my birthday) for lying about using steroids and check-fraud. I also learned of Irving Penn, an educator, [...] Continue Reading…

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Stevie Wonder: Songs In the Key of Life

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

Stevie Wonder has been making music professionally since he was twelve years. Born blind in 1950, Stevie Wonder is an American singer, songwriter, and producer today who has built his success as a socially conscious artist and performer. The man [...] Continue Reading…

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Duke Ellington: Jazz Legend

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

This man was born at the turn of the century, and it seems he set the country on fire with his music. Composing over 1500 songs of varying styles, he called his music American Music, but it is widely considered jazz. If [...] Continue Reading…

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Part 4b: The Single Most Dynamic Action in My Prayer Life

FAITH (heart condition)

I had that desperate look in my eye. We needed help back then (we still do but it was more painful–to me–back then). I often felt that without somebody’s intervention the doors could close any day now. I mean I was [...] Continue Reading…

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Part 5c: More For Your Wallet

FAITH (heart condition)

Well, I received a few requests for some scripture suggestions that are perfect for the pocket. Honestly it just depends on what you are dealing with at the time. My favorite spot to hunt down life changing scriptures for my wallet/purse/back pocket [...] Continue Reading…

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Gone in September . . .

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

It’s official, the end of the year is here. Tomorrow is the beginning of the fourth quarter and it brings to mind all of our New Year’s Resolutions. Why am I bring it up now when there are clearing 3 more months [...] Continue Reading…

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TLF Syndrome Jacking Up My Life Again. Are you a victim too?

FAITH (heart condition)

It  used  to be so huge to her. It use to fill the room and consume her thoughts.  But now it was almost gone.  She could barely see it and definitely could not touch it.  How could something that big shrink so small?  Was [...] Continue Reading…

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Who says life isn’t a musical!?!

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You know what it feels like.  You have experienced it more times than you care to admit.  I’m talking about that mounting feeling of  pressure when overwhelm is about to knock you down again.  When the day seems too long and the assignment too [...] Continue Reading…

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LOVE & Other Four Letter Words! Part 4 – Four Things to Look For When You Are Searching For An Outstanding Love

LOVE (what is love?)

Do you remember being in elementary or middle school and having your first crush?  I do. I was in the first grade and his smile just made my day.  I hardly knew anything about him but I knew I wanted to be in the [...] Continue Reading…

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LOVE, & Other Four Letter Words! Part 3 – Five Things To Watch Out For

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She stepped toward the edge of the board.  Knees numb, legs jumping, she wondered how she would do this.  But something in her felt that she could only do this.  No quitting, no going back…it was as if the only choice was to dive [...] Continue Reading…

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LOVE, & Other Four Letter Words! Part 2 – Simple Pleasures

LOVE (what is love?)

Yesterday, I purchased a new lunch box. I was so happy with myself to finally have something that reflects my style to carry my food in. It’s cute and chic (for a lunch box) and it can easily be mistaken for a [...] Continue Reading…

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LOVE & Other Four Letter Words! Part 1

LOVE (what is love?)

Love Interlude: He was breath-taking to her.  Moments in his presence often left her limp and longing for more of him.  She day-dreamed him into her life, wished him into her future.  She danced when she thought of him and something on the inside [...] Continue Reading…

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The King’s Company: Who’s Got the Hook Up?

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

You ever noticed how everybody seems to know somebody that “can help you with that.  Let me just give them a call for you.  Don’t worry, I’ll hook you up.”  These days everybody seems to need a hook up, want a hook up, or [...] Continue Reading…

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Transformers: More Than Meets The Eye

LOVE (what is love?)

a new duck, a new you I was that girl that just loved the action cartoons from my childhood.  Some of my favorites were Defenders of the Earth, Thunder Cats, and of course The Transformers.  Every time Optimus Prime’s voice came through the television something [...] Continue Reading…

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Ferris Wheels, Roller Coasters and Merry Go Rounds, Motion Without Forward Movement

LOVE (what is love?)

Do you remember the fair?  It was exciting to hear that “the fair is coming to town!”  I could always see myself walking the grounds with funnel cake in both hands or trying to win a stuffed animal or standing in line for the [...] Continue Reading…

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Restless and Unafraid of Change

LOVE (what is love?)

Often times life stretches out in front of us like a long winding road that we have yet to travel.  It looks interesting and frightening at the same time.  Going around that corner is unknown, and the unknown excites one person and scares another. I [...] Continue Reading…

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