When the holidays come, it has a tendency to magnify the hole that may already be in your soul. Nothing is wrong with you. Life is happening and your heart is aching regardless of the season. But don’t let it overtake you. Do something now. Consider being with your family and just sitting still together and remembering . . . and when you are done, get up together and go do something wonderful that the person you miss would do.
And if the person you miss is alive but on the other side of the country or the world, then create something that will make their day like a photo album, a cool website that they can see, a movie. In other words, make a memory and send it, reminding them that you love them and even though you are strong (I know you are) life just ‘ain’t the same’ without them.
-MizJAI-
