Or maybe you are the woman who sees hope in everything and everyone, but you haven’t realized that every man is not your assignment and that some fundamental things must be settled before God would ever give him to you. What do I mean? Is he extremely insecure? Is he violent? Does he have too much to prove or is he comfortable in his own skin and comfortable with you being you?
You know what the answers should be . . . so ask yourself the questions and tell yourself the truth. As long as you are willing to deal with you, then you are woman enough to let go when you should let go and hold on when you should hold on . . .
Unless . . .
you just feel overwhelmed and the need to be rescued; So you are willing to respond to anyone on a white horse, because you need a way out of your status quo. Not realizing that you can mount your own horse and ride out of your dark night, and meet your prince along the way to freedom (or where ever you’re going). Don’t choose a man or allow a man to choose you simply because you need a change. Stand up and create your own change. You will meet a much healthier man when you remove the desperation from your motives for love. Whether conscious, subconscious or whatever we want to call it; just tell yourself the truth, so that you can get to living a better dream.
MizJAI
Her husband is known in the [city's] gates, when he sits among the elders of the land. Proverbs 31:23 AMP
