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Getting to the Business of Living

“I have these yesterdays that creep into my future. I try to walk in new dreams but I have this old pain that just gets in the way. I seek after new moments but it seems to be the old me when I get there. I’m looking for something new but it never seems to [...]

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The PRO Series!

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

Welcome to the PRO Series! A pro is an expert, a master, an specialist, a virtuoso. They are the people of excellence who possess an outstanding skill at a profession or an art. In this case the PRO excels at the art of being woman & the art of being man. And believe me there [...]

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My Heart, My Love 2

LOVE (what is love?)

continued from My Heart, My Love . . . Watching a woman face the truth can make you want to run or get real too. One of the women at the table said that she wasn’t pretending any more either. Another one said that she would only want him for sex right now, so until [...]

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My Heart, My Love

LOVE (what is love?)

I can’t seem to get around this subject. As I build my dream life, it occurs to me that I can not and should not get away from love. A friend of mine confronted a group of us with the truth of our dreams and desires for love and romance . . . It was [...]

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That’s Bull & Crap, & You Know It

LOVE (what is love?)

If we never let go of the dysfunction, and hold onto the wrong men and the wrong women in our lives, just so we can say, “I got a man” “I’m not alone” then we never make room to become something more, someone whole who is worthy of a real love. Shot, if we keep [...]

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Hold Up! Wait A Minute!

FULFILLMENT (lifestyle design)

You remember that phrase, “Anything worth having at all is worth working and waiting for?” I think I first heard it in a song. We can and will have the lives we want, but it does take time and painful effort, as Solomon puts it. In other words, ‘making haste to be rich’ can mess [...]

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She Can She Do 27: Find a Healthy Church & Become a Healthy Woman

FOOTSTEPS (act on it)

Relationships are everything to us, especially love (and lust that we sometimes call love) relationships. Some stats say that there are more successful women than men, so that when you reach a certain status there are not enough men to go around. And if you are a black woman looking for a black man, the [...]

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Rejection 2: Men

FREEDOM (No Limits!)

Rejection from the opposite sex some how feels more painful, as if it cuts into a deeper part of us. I have watched girls turn that pain into songs, poems, and paintings, as well as depression, seclusion and suicidal attempts. I learned a few things facing my own sense of rejection. We are more likely [...]