real love

Getting to the Business of Living

“I have these yesterdays that creep into my future. I try to walk in new dreams but I have this old pain that just gets in the way. I seek after new moments but it seems to be the old me when I get there. I’m looking for something new but it never seems to [...]

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My Heart, My Love 2

LOVE (what is love?)

continued from My Heart, My Love . . . Watching a woman face the truth can make you want to run or get real too. One of the women at the table said that she wasn’t pretending any more either. Another one said that she would only want him for sex right now, so until [...]

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My Heart, My Love

LOVE (what is love?)

I can’t seem to get around this subject. As I build my dream life, it occurs to me that I can not and should not get away from love. A friend of mine confronted a group of us with the truth of our dreams and desires for love and romance . . . It was [...]

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That’s Bull & Crap, & You Know It

LOVE (what is love?)

If we never let go of the dysfunction, and hold onto the wrong men and the wrong women in our lives, just so we can say, “I got a man” “I’m not alone” then we never make room to become something more, someone whole who is worthy of a real love. Shot, if we keep [...]

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Freedom 2: The way I see it, freedom is…

FREEDOM (No Limits!)

Freedom is choice Freedom is the awareness of our right to decide our lives, to change our minds, to redirect or maintain our course. That’s why real love is so liberating because we don’t just fall into love it like it’s some kind of accident. No matter how magical or second nature at some level [...]