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She Can She Do 17: Planning the Dream

I know a man, who lives for his vacations. All the other days of his life only exist to make money for the three months that he takes off each year. These are the three months that he is truly alive. Many of us live the same monotonous routine. We may not vacation for three [...]

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She Can She Do 16: More Than You Know

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There are a plethora of gifts that we could receive. In fact, God Himself has an endless supply of things set aside for us . . . love, joy, peace, patience, and the list (the fruit of His Spirit) goes on and on for those of us in love with Him. But the gifts don’t [...]

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She Can She Do 15: Small Beginnings

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You ever heard that statement ‘great things come in small packages’? Well, diamonds for one, children are another (remember, you started out all tiny, innocent as a sweet bundle of some body’s joy), even words that make you smile don’t take up much space,. In the same manner, our dreams begin with simple ideas and [...]

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She Can She Do 14: I’m Angry & I Can’t See Straight

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Anger and rage are blinders, causing us to focus in on the source of our pain and the need to avoid feeling that way again. Anger is not something you can control and limit, if you allow it to become a part of you, then it will begin to show up in areas that you [...]

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She Can She Do 13: Anger Ain’t No Lifetime Companion

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You can’t truly live in anger and fear. I used to think that anger was a weapon of mine. I used to believe that anger would keep me from the wrong men and make me speak up and stand up for myself. I used to think anger was the key to my boldness and it [...]

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She Can She Do 12: Move, Get Out the Way!

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Since when has it been alright for women to choose death and men to choose violence? Bishop Weeks attacking his wife, Dr. Juanita Bynum, can’t put the biggest mark on the church. The biggest mark on the church is inaction. The biggest mark is every time a woman stays in a dangerous lifestyle. The biggest [...]

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She Can She Do 11: Forever Connected . . .

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The circumstances of this week are a shocker, particularly if you are a Christian or a woman or aware. Juanita Bynum, a prominent minister, author and singer, was physically attacked in the parking lot of a hotel on Tuesday by her husband, Bishop Weeks. On Thursday, another ministering power couple, Paula and Randy White, announced [...]

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She Can She Do 10: The Landscape May Change, but I’m Still Strong!

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Last night I learned that a Minister in my town was beat up by her husband in the parking lot of the Renaissance Concourse hotel in Atlanta. It shook me up, reminding me of my own past. It shook me up, because the fairytale died, again, for another woman. She had a very public and [...]

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She Can She Do 9: What Am I Supposed to Do?

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Waiting for something beautiful to fall out of the sky? Hoping to be ‘discovered’ for the talent that you haven’t ‘discovered’ that you have yet? Looking for the world to recognize just who you are? Well . . . It just may happen, but more often than not it will take some work on your [...]

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She Can She Do 8: The Money Question!

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Let’s face it, who doesn’t need money for some reason or another? Bills don’t pay themselves, food ‘ain’t’ free. These days even good old fashion clean water cost. What’s next air? Clean air for $5.50 a gallon or $0.50 per inhale; Thank God exhales are free?! The point is . . . money is a [...]